When it comes to spicing up your sex life, you might have trouble deciding where to begin. Some people are shy, embarrassed to speak up to their partner, or scared of the reaction they may be faced with from their significant other.
UPDATE: This article previously listed Shiva Lingam stones among the recommended stones for enhancing sexual energy. This is an incorrect use of these sacred ritual objects and the article has been updated to reflect this change since the use of the stones in this manner is culturally appropriative, especially shared by the author here (who is white), and does not honor their intended cultural and historical use. This article has been updated to reflect this change.
Healing crystals are a simple and accessible way to create a stronger sexual connection between yourself and your partner. Each crystal has its own unique properties: physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual. When the crystal is brought into your environment, it can shift the energy in the space to help you connect with those desired traits.
Some great crystals known for enhancing sexual energy include Ruby, Carnelian, Pyrite, Fire Quartz, and Sunstone. These stones are best used by placing them in the four corners around your bed (either on the floor beneath the bed, or between the mattress and the box springs). This geometric arrangement of crystals is known as a crystal grid and is commonly used for shifting the energy in a space. By surrounding the bed with the stones that enhance sexual energy, you can really spice up your love life.
Alternatively, you could place a Spessartine Garnet, known for increasing desire for your partner, in each of your pillowcases. This can really help to activate your sex drive and enhance the connection you feel with your partner.
If your sex drive is low due to a lack of romance in your relationship, you might try placing a bowl of tumbled Rose Quartz stones or a Roselite crystal on your bedside table.
If you deepen the romantic connection between you and your partner, then you may find that your sex drive naturally returns to the relationship.
To increase overall passion in your relationship, you and your partner can both try carrying some crystals with you during the day. Smoky Quartz, Ruby-Zoisite, and Pink Spinel are all known for increasing passion. Carry a few of these stones in your pocket, or in your handbag, to bring more passion into your relationship. Your body will absorb this energy vibration from the crystals during the day and when you return to your partner, you’ll feel a renewed sense of passion for him or her.
You can use these tips and tricks on their own or in combination to help you supercharge your sex life with healing stones.